I would not say to refuse advice, as there are people out there who have dedicated their lives to the study of this psychology, and understanding women, social behaviors, and patterns.

In fact, I think you meant to say “pick your advice very, very selectively.” 2 reasons

1) bad advice sucks.
2) there’s too much out there, so you need to select the good stuff.

So where do you find the good stuff? Well, drop me an e-mail and I’ll enlighten you =)